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Are We Fighting the Wrong Battle?

Soul Talk

I’m reading Soul Talk: The Language God Longs for Us to Speak by Larry Crabb. It’s a look at how we can help each other through relying on Christ within us, through spirit-led conversation, deepening relationships. Here is an thought provoking excerpt:

We’re fighting the wrong battle. We’re excited about the things that bore God, things that stir us up then tire us out. Another initiative. Another Campaign. Another way to do it. We’re putting our energy and resources into projects and programs that market well but don’t do what God most wants done.

Which is worse? A church program to build community that doesn’t get o the ground or one person sitting every Sunday in the back o the church who remains unknown. …A family torn apart by the father’s drinking, his wife’s frustration, and their third grade’s learning disabilities or a self-hating dad, a terrified mom and a lonely little boy, three human beings whose beauty and value no one ever discovers? A national campaign that fails to gain steam or the Pro Life moment or a single woman on the way home from an abortion clinic in the back seat o a taxi, a women whose no one ever touches?

We may notice the unknown pew sitter, worry over each member o the torn up family, and feel for the guilt and pain of a woman who has ended her baby’s life. But we do what’s easier. We design programs, we brainstorm things to build attendance, and in our outrage over divorce and abortion numbers we fight for family values.

These are all good things but we don’t talk to the pew sitter; we don’t invite the dad to play golf, the woman to lunch or the little boy to play with our children; we don’t let the aborting woman know we care about her soul. Time is one problem. But feeling uncomfortable in how we speak to struggling people is bigger one. As a result, souls are never entered; people remain unknown, undiscovered and untouched while programs flourish, ministries grow and moral campaigns get press.

Programs, bigness and moral indignation have become substitutes or SoulTalk. Many of us are disorganized, small, and indifferent to any kind of evil that does not affect our life directly. We stay to ourselves, committed to personal comfort, struggling along to make it happen. …while all across the world, people in record numbers, are living the tragedy of an unobserved life…

We know each other’s names. We know what we do. We work together and discuss exciting things. We pray together. We enjoy each other and laugh together. But we remain personally unknown. No one knows the deep battle going on deep in our soul.

MORE QUOTES

“Pleasing God brings pleasure into our soul. It’s what we want to do. Pleasing others created pressure. It’s what we think we have to do. And it’s tiring; it wears us out.”

“Most people go through their entire life never speaking words to another human being that come out of what is deepest within them, and most people never hear words that reach all the way into that deep place we call the soul.”

“Every conversation either stimulates or dampens our desire for God.”

“How can conversations between followers of Jesus become a stage on which the supernatural power of God is unmistakably displayed?”

“We live in a day when the life that God has given to every Jesus follower is counterfeited, contrived, neglected, hidden, unreleased, and generally not believed in.”

“…most of us are never known by a safe friend, never explored by a curious friend, and never discovered by a hopeful friend. And that is a tragedy, as harmful to the soul as AIDS is to the body. Hearts are not changed. Or hearts that have been changed by the Spirit at conversion to Christ are not released.”

If Jesus were speaking He would say,

“Put programs and your moral outrage where they belong–in second place. When they occupy first place in your heart, I find the detestable. I hate them.  Can’t you see the real battle going in in the human soul?  Wake up! It’s a heart problem. My people want something more than they want me. And it’s ruining them. They efforts to make life work are wearing them out and carrying them further and further from me. And I am their only hope, their only source of rest and joy. Learn to speak with power into people’s lives. Arouse their desire for me until their thirst for me consumes them. When they get away with me they will rediscover their lives! The battle is for the heart. The battle is for the soul.”

Emphasis mine.

Robin

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The Shack Interview

William P. Young Interview on Life Today

Interview with William P. Young On Life Today. He is the author of the popular, controversial book “The Shack”. Incredible story of God’s power working in people’s lives for His glory!

My Review of #1 NY Times Best Seller: The Shack

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Listen to Your Story Hour Online

Did you know you can listen to Your Story Hour archives free online from OnePlace.com?

Your Story Hour encourages young people to develop a strong Christian character through its dramatized radio program (English, Spanish & Russian), free Bible lessons and online magazine for kids. Exciting, inspirational and educational stories bring the Scriptures, history and everyday experiences to life.

Click on the links below to hear stories.  You can purchased CD, online downloads or audio tapes from Your Story Hour.

‘The Autograph’ and ‘A Special Strength’
Two historical stories: In the first story Rebecca shares her pen for historic event. The second story depicts a Quaker lady who opens a school for girls of all races.

The Turning Point
Paul present himself to the other apostles in Jerusalem. Peter heals Aeneas and preaches.

Capture at Damascus
Paul’s encounter with Jesus on the way to Damascus.

Miracles Greater Than Magic
A story from the early Christian church, Simon of Samaria.

Amazing Grace, John Newton — Part 4
Having answered a call to the ministry, Newton becomes a prodigious hymn writer and prominent opponent of the slave trade.

Amazing Grace, John Newton — Part 3
Back in Africa on another slave ship, a back-slidden Newton repents during a terrible sickness, records in two days and returns to England, where he is married.

Amazing Grace, John Newton — Part 2
A constant irritant to his fellow sailors, because of his cursing, blasphemies and rebellious ways, Newton’s faith returns when his ship miraculously survives a storm.

Amazing Grace – John Newton, Part 1
No longer a church-loving little boy, John Newton joins the crew of a slave ship as a teenager to avoid service in the Royal Navy.

At Rainbow’s End
A man and his son face difficult circumstances while trying to find gold in the California Gold Rush. After praying for God’s protection and guidance they realize that God’s way is the best way.

Saul of Tarsus
The amazing story of Saul’s conversion.

Angel in Prison
Peter is delivered by an angel from prison.

 

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Free Books and Spiritual Encouragement

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The Super Simple Spiritual Sunday Meme is simply a list of my favorite finds this week. When you visit here don’t forgot to check out the snippets from my favorite blogs on the lower right sidebar. The list is updated daily.

  1. Tell-a-Marketer - Carol Hatcher’s post on Writer Interrupted is convicted to change her attitude about telemarketers and finds a prayer partner.
  2. What I’d Like For You To Know: A Mom of Autstic Children - Rocks in My Dryer’s guest speaker Arianne shares her moving story about raising three autistic sons.
  3. The God Journey Podcasts - Weekly podcast by Wayne Jacobsen and Brad Cummings, is an ever-expanding conversation about life and thinking outside the box of what we’ve always known (in regard to religion and our relationship with God)
  4. Escaping the Homeschool Matrix - Encouragement for homeschool moms dealing with those “lower than a snake’s belly” days. We’ve all been in the valleys, and it helps to remember that you’re not alone.
  5. Tablet Ignites Debate on Messiah and Resurrection - A story from the NY Times Herald Tribune reports: A three-foot-tall tablet with 87 lines of Hebrew that scholars believe dates from the decades just before the birth of Jesus is causing a quiet stir in biblical and archaeological circles, especially because it may speak of a messiah who will rise from the dead after three days….”

Free Books Online

If you have a Kindle e-book reader you can send these online books to your Kindle free via email.

  1. He Loves Me - I posted the first chapter of this book in an earlier blog post Daisy Petal Christianity. Download the first draft of this book free here (194 pg PDF)
  1. Evangelical Christian library- Featuring free online books for the whole family by contemporary Christian authors such as Robert Boyd Munger, Jill Briscoe, Francis Schaeffer, Chuck Swindoll, John Fischer, J.I. Packer and many more.
  2. The Kneeling Christian - This classic book on prayer is now available free online. Written by “An Unknown Author” answers the most basic and often-asked questions Christians have about prayer. My Grandmother gave me this book soon after I became a Christian. I read it over and over amazed at the source of power available to us through prayer. Prayer, communication with the Creator of the universe, must be a central part of our day to prepare us for daily challenges. I urge you to read this book aloud with your family.

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My Review of #1 NY Times Best Seller: The Shack

The Shack review

William P. Young wrote a fiction novel to teach his six children about his relationship with God. It is allegory about God’s grace healing brokenness.

Young planned on making a few copies of the book at Kinkos as gifts. But then he shared the book with a few friends. They told a few more friends and through word of mouth marketing the book is now number 1 on the NY Times Best Seller list with over one million copies in print. It has been on USA Today’s best selling list for 18 weeks.

The title of the book is The Shack. This book is extremely thought provoking, unique and incredibly emotional. It has been compared to Pilgrim’s Progress and C.S. Lewis’s work. On Amazon it has over 600 reviews and over 500 of them give the book at least four stars. It is sure to become a classic.

By habit, I am suspicious of books that are popular, especially in the Christian market (my readers know I don’t hesitate to wave red flags). I read The Shack guardedly expecting for Oprah’s New Age type religion/philosophy.

I was pleasantly surprised with this stirring and unforgettable story about God’s love and spiritual healing. Here is the book description:

Mackenzie Allen Philips’ youngest daughter, Missy, has been abducted during a family vacation and evidence that she may have been brutally murdered is found in an abandoned shack deep in the Oregon wilderness.

Four years later in the midst of his “Great Sadness,” Mack receives a suspicious note, apparently from God, inviting him back to that shack for a weekend. Against his better judgment he arrives at the shack on a wintry afternoon and walks back into his darkest nightmare. What he finds there will change Mack’s world forever.

In a world where religion seems to grow increasingly irrelevant “The Shack” wrestles with the timeless question, “Where is God in a world so filled with unspeakable pain?” The answers Mack gets will astound you and perhaps transform you as much as it did him.

This is a fiction book. Missy’s death is a metaphor for an ugly, dark place hidden so deep that it seemed beyond God’s healing reach. Mack spends the two and a half days with the Trinity learning about himself and God and relationships in the shack which is transformed into a mansion in an Eden-like garden for the weekend.

I smiled, cried, pondered, prayed, and repented as I read this over two days. The main focus of this book is on God’s love, God’s mercy, and the importance of us loving and forgiving others. I came away from the book refreshed.

Once I felt comfortable the author believed in salvation by faith through grace and that Jesus being the only way, I let down my guard and basked in this well written book full of hidden treasures. This is a novel you read with a highlighter.

Those who view Christianity only as a religion with rules to follow will learn that faith and love don’t come from theology or rules they flow from a relationship with God.

“Grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”

William P. Young, The Shack

Why is The Shack so Popular?

Young approaches the popular topic the love of God and human suffering in a story. Jesus taught in parables and object lessons because we learn well from stories. Young’s story is an attempt describe a God’s character to his children. But God’s character is essentially indescribable. We can only understand a part of God’s characteristics by what we know and experience in human relationships.

People in our culture have a need to connect with God as a personal God beyond the holy and omnipotent. Our reverence and wonder about the presence of God make hard to grasp God in terms of intimate family relationships such as God as Papa (instead of an unseen force or an abstract will).

Young presents an easy to relate to version of the trinity of three persons with unique personalities spending a few days casual friendly folksy conversation and home cooked comfort meals. Easy enough for a child to understand, loving, warm and rich.

If you have been hurt in your life through church or religion or experienced the pain of legalism or rejection of judgmental attitudes this book will especially touch you. I have been hurt a lot in churches so I was profoundly impacted.

There is such a chasm between God’s holy being and our imperfect world that it is simply hard to understand God’s mercy and loving actions with unworthy man. The Shack gives us a grasp of the depth of the love of God and it is beyond comforting, it is exhilarating!

“Every time you forgive, the universe changes; everytime you reach out and touch a life, the world changes; with every kindness, seen or unseen, my purposes are accomplished and nothing will ever be the same again.”

The Controversy

Any book that includes conversations with God is bound to receive criticism. How can anyone put words in God’s mouth? But the critics seem to forget the book is a fiction story by a man telling a story about God’s love to his children, not a book on theology. This book is Young’s perception of God.

I was not in total agreement with The Shack (I am not in total agreement with several of my favorite authors). I don’t expect any book but the Bible to be perfect. Books are like watermelons; you have to be willing to spit out a few seeds.

I read many of the heresy hunters posts and some of them say some things that just are not true. The article “Is the Shack Heresy?” by Wayne Jacobson addresses each of the problems the critics bring up.

The predestination folks (particularly Tim Challies) seem to have the most problems with the book (the teachings in The Shack–God loves everyone– do not agree with predestination. See the video series for a full explanation).

A Feminine God?

I imagine the hardest part for Christians to grasp is God being first presented to Mack as a female. Its easy to understand a knee jerk reaction. I was cautious when I read this but not completely turned off I have a limited understanding of the masculine and feminine parts of the image of God (because of my studies in Hebrew roots). When Adam was first made, he was both male and female, formed in the image of God (Genesis 1:27).

The Shack is not trying to reinvent God as a female, but revealing that God is beyond race and gender. The main character in the story Mack was abused by his father so the author presents a comforting mother type at first, later in the book (once the earthly father issues are solved) God is presented as the Father. Harper’s Bible Dictionary explains the Bible uses both male and female imagery to show the charter of God:

Although masculine images for God dominate (e.g., king, judge, father, brother, shepherd, etc.), it must be recognized that feminine images are also frequently used to describe God’s activity. Among these are images related to feminine anatomy (e.g., womb and breasts) and feminine function (e.g., conception, pregnancy, childbirth, maternal nurture, etc.).

In the story, Papa explains that there is no hierarchy in the holy trinity–there is no need because each serves each other. It is a thought provoking description and my jury is still out on this section. But I have no problem questioning this and gleaning from the rest of the story.

Turkey Bacon

I was very disappointed that God served bacon for breakfast (See my view on the Bible dietary laws). My 30 year old son helped me with this. When we discussed it he said (tongue in cheek) “Hey mom, it is probably the same turkey bacon you serve.” I was enjoying the story so much I didn’t want this part to ruin it. So in my mind–it is turkey bacon.

Christian can agree to disagree in non-salvation issues and still love each other. The harsh reviews almost all misquote the book or twist the meaning of a few lines.  The Shack is not irrelevant to God, the Bible or Jesus–it just knocks man’s traditions and that upsets some people.

To fairly critique the book I would ask the question:

What did Mack learn from his weekend with God?

The Shack is not about theology or religion, but about the sweetness of an intimate relationship with God through Christ.

Mack is reminded of basic truths found in God’s word that he allowed forgot during his great sadness. The truths are given in an unconditional casual conversation format that may make some people uncomfortable.
Mack learns that he doesn’t really trust God and “Trust is the fruit of a relationship where you know you are loved” (p 126).
Mack discovers that God’s desires an intimate love relationship with each of us. He learns God wants him to spend time with Him and intimately communicate with Him, to enjoy fellowship with Him, to trust and follow Him, and to give his life meaning and purpose. He learns that God can use all things, even sin and evil to develop this relationship for good (Romans 8:28).
Mack discovers the depth of God’s grace (Ephesians 2:4-5) . He learns that he can not be self-sufficient and realizes he has been made acceptable through Jesus Christ and Him alone. He learns he will not find God through guilt or condemnation. He understands God is lovingly and patiently waiting on Him to submit (1 Peter 5:7).
Mack is reminded of the two most important commands–to love God and love others (john 13:35). Mack already knows he must forgive others as Christ forgave Him but in the shack he is helped through the process.
Mack learns God works through everything including our brokenness and sadness (Philippians 3:8). When we are separated from our prideful flesh (the carnal, corrupted life) through grace and allow the Holy Spirit to work in us He will gradually bring us to the restful place of humble dependence, wherein we can consistently receive the grace that leads to intimacy. Beautiful, loving intimacy!
Mack learns God wants us to be made complete in Christ (John 6:44-45). God wants us to be of one mind with Him. God wants us to make His ways our ways, His thoughts our thoughts.

I came away from the book feeling loved and secure with a strong desire to cultivate my relationship with God through His Word. How can that be a bad thing?

Oh, how great is Your goodness, which You have laid up for those who fear, revere, and worship You, goodness which You have wrought for those who trust and take refuge in You before the sons of men!
In the secret place of Your presence You hide them from the plots of men; You keep them secretly in Your pavilion from the strife of tongues. Blessed be the Lord! For He has shown me His marvelous loving favor…

Psalms 31:17-19

Video Review of The Shack

Windblown Media: Publishers of The Shack

The Shack was rejected by traditional publishers. Young’s friends Wayne Jacobsen and Brad C